From the monthly archives:

December 2009

Law of Attraction Myth #3

by Caryl Westmore on December 15, 2009

I am writing a 6-part series entitled: 6 Law of Attraction Myths and How to Avoid them.

This is the third Myth I had to explode on my own path of break-free enlightenment to living the life I love!

YOU SHOULD TAKE A BIG QUANTUM LEAP
“Reach for the big dream – the sky’s the limit” is a Law of Attraction trap that can set you up for a cropper.

It’s true that what the mind can conceive you can achieve – but not without some preliminary mental and physical training! The big myth is that other people are creating luxury cars and millionaire businesses or book deals “overnight.”

Look carefully and you will see they began modestly with baby steps – and that includes people like the Chicken Soup for the Soul authors Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen. I love the story that as they searched for a winning title for the book they had been inspired to co-author, Jack & Mark each agreed to meditate on the subject for one hour a day. Jack visualized the image of his grandmother’s chicken soup and remembered how she told him it would cure anything. The book would have the same healing powers as that soup, but not for the body—for the soul. Thus, the now famous title was born.

LAW OF ATTRACTION TIP #3
Hold a vision of your BIG DREAM OR GOAL but chunk it down into manageable smaller goals. Take baby steps or tiny “creative hops” as Julia Cameron puts it. Keep committed each step of the way and gradually you will build momentum to effortlessly take the big leap.

How Two Ordinary Guys (one a chef) Ran the Great Wall of China
When extreme athletes David Grier and Braam Malherbe of Cape Town were inspired with the idea which became the first Cipla Miles for Smiles Foundation challenge: to run the length of the Great Wall of China in one attempt – a feat that would be a world first – it took a full year and many set-backs to get the funding plus months of grueling training to build up their physical and mental endurance.

Even Tim Noakes, their Sports Science Institute trainer told them he doubted they would succeed running what was the equivalent of 4 marathons back to back. But having put in committed months of training, they did indeed achieve their inspired vision while raising  thousands for 55 kids to have their faces (and smiles) reconstructed. In terms of the Law of Attraction, they stuck to their inspired vision – all the while persevering with small action goals to train their body, minds and beliefs to win big in the end.

More on Law of Attraction Myth#1 here and Myth#2 here.

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Law of Attraction: 6 Biggest Myths and how to Avoid them: Myth#2

by Caryl Westmore on December 1, 2009

Law of Attraction Myth #2 is the false belief that…
YOU ARE ALWAYS IN CONTROL AND MUST AVOID PAIN AND NEGATIVITYpain
Believing this myth can trap you in the cage of VICTIM. It can cause despair and despondency, blame and shame. Every time I hit a rough patch in my life for the longest time I blamed “someone out there” or lashed myself for failing to “get it right.”

My heart broke in pieces when I lost my dog in the house fire that caused my life to change dramatically in 1999. My ego took some serious knocks when I had to finally admit to my family a few years later that I was flat broke and in debt. But looking back I can see how those devastating events refined my heart and humbled my personality to clear the way for inner transformation and my ultimate happiness to live the life I love today.

Law of Attraction TIP No. 2
Know when to “Let Go and Let God” and trust the “bigger picture” when it comes to the challenges, pain and negativity in your life. Ditch the victim/blame mentality as fast as you can. Learn to “love what is” and surrender to a Higher Power or Divine Mind greater that the Little You. Ask: “What’s come up for healing? “ Let it throw light on WHAT YOU DON’T WANT. Then get still and tune in to where the Divine wants to take you. It means you are connected to your authentic self. Wait and you will get an inspired nudge or idea on WHAT YOU DO WANT. From there your action will be inspired rather than controlling.

And things will come to you in a flow of ease, peace and love.

You can read the previous Law of Attraction MYTH #1
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