by Caryl Westmore on March 18, 2010
Lacking money? Then check for lack of people prosperity! I was reminded of the link between how we attract and handle – or mishandle money -and our thoughts, beliefs and feelings connected with people in our life, past and present from Joan Sotkin recently. Her ideas at Prosperity Place expanded my thinking as I go into my phase of workshops and talks, press interviews to launch my book You Can Break-Free Fast in South Africa this month.
While I get MIRACULOUS results with my 3-step You Can Break-Free Fast process containing the tool of EFT Tapping to source and release “what set this up” as a block in the present – inevitably it’s the metaphors and memories from the past that hold the secret to help you get clear and break free.
So it struck a chord to read Joan’s insights as to how banks can be parent substitutes and work and business situations carbon copies of our family of origin.
She says:
“If you’re having a problem with someone at work, examine how the problem relates to conflicts you had with family members.If you have your own business, then your relationships with your customers will be a reflection of your relationships with your family of origin or other close relationships.
You’re asking them to acknowledge and support you. If your customers like what you have to offer, they’ll express their pleasure by exchanging money for your goods or services. If you had a balanced love relationship with your family, that will be reflected in a healthy business. If, on the other hand, your parents died or divorced when you were young, or if you were abused or in any way abandoned, you may have more trouble establishing a comfortable and consistent money flow in your business”.
Of course tied in with fear of rejection from others is the core issue of loving and accepting YOU. FORGIVENESS, SELF ACCEPTANCE AND LOVE OF SELF comes top of the list as you do EFT Tapping. You say it till you mean it right in the set up phrase and believe me this sets you up for success.
by Caryl Westmore on February 26, 2010
EFT Tapping World Summit 2010 is delivering more than I could have dreamed. Hats off to all involved especially…Ortners. What’s wonderful is how this technique is powering global healing.
I’ve been a trainer and therapist using EFT tapping for more than eight years – and helped introduce it in South Africa – but still I am thrilled and bowled over and amazed at all that I am learning from people like Patricia Carrington on Boosting the Law of Attraction, and Rick Wilkes on healing Inner Child Trauma. These are both in line with my own work.
EFT TAPPING HEALS CHILDHOOD TRAUMA
My
ebook (soon to be audio):
Michael Jackson: 5 Lessons to Heal or Change you Life is about the effect of inner child trauma that Wilkes pinpoints.
Empower your Younger You – shift old energies – ask permission first – picture yourself walking into the scene and you honor their boundary as to if they want help or not.
It’s wonderful to hear Rick describe this about transforming frozen energy into empowered energy in your life NOW.
Once cleared of inner pain and stuckness – NOW WHAT? What choices does this open up? Playfulness, re-parenting, compassion and comfort that was missing in the past. Allows your own body to flow and focus – radiate from your heart to the world in gratitude and appreciation.
ABUNDANCE
As for Carrington’s session – it reminds me to me to make a daily ritual of tapping in POSITIVE SNAPSHOTS from each day and tell the Universe: “I want MORE of that”.
Cool hey?
Here in Cape Town where I am currently based to launch my Break-Free Fast book in bookstores – I passionate about doing more to spread the healing word with workshops and talks. Plus I’m boosting my own journey of success and passion with EFT Tapping and the 2010 Tapping Summit interviews.
These cover:
Tapping into Abundance: Understanding What’s Really Going on with The Law of Attraction
-Using Meridian Tapping to Quickly Manage and Eliminate Pain fro Trauma, Injury, and Surgery
-Freedom From Food! Releasing Your Cravings and Compulsive Eating Habits to Lose Weight and Feel Great
-Breaking the Chain of Addictions with Meridian Tapping-
-Meridian Tapping for Cancer Support
-Skyrocket Your Business by Overcoming the Most Common Business Fears
Get connected now and join the more thousands of others benefitting from the EFT Tapping Summit.
by Caryl Westmore on February 24, 2010
GIVING HEALS
Want to know how to use the Law of Attraction to bring more happiness, health, wealth and love in your life?
Simply start GIVING.
Give away one thing each day for 29 days.
Why?
Because Giving activates the Law of Attraction – beyond your wildest dreams!
Because, as Cami Walker, inspired originator of the book and website that has spread the 29 Gifts in 29 Days movement to 10 000 people in 42 countries says: “to see your world change, you have to DO something to change your world”.
Giving shifts energy, opens the heart and can even heal you.
Giving works miracles.
Cami Walker
Cami Walker, was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis just one month after her wedding. She was 31-years old.
Bitter, isolated and depressed she was addicted to pain medication and self-pity. She turned to her friend and spiritual advisor, a South African healer called Mbali. Mbali gave her an unusual prescription for healing: GIVE 29 GIFTS IN 29 DAYS.
“You must be crazy,” was her initial response. “I’m bed-ridden and about to go into hospital – and you want me to give?”
Mbali insisted … and so began Cami’s healing journey of giving and miracles.
Just 14 days later she no longer needed her crutches to walk. And she had loads more energy.
She went on to write a book: 29 Gifts and to start the world movement of GIVING.
DOS & DON’TS OF GIFT GIVING
DO give from the heart
Mother Theresa once said: “It’s not how much we give but how much love we put into giving.”
Give a smile, a helping hand or something bigger. Give old clothes to a charity shop, send a letter to say I love You… choose your gifts day by day and see your world change.
DON’T give your Chinese friends:
*a wok or frying pan – in Cantonese the word is similar to a word meaning “small disaster”.
* a clock – the word in Mandarin sounds similar in meaning to “the end” or death.
* a sharp object like a knife or scissors – that would symbolize severing a relationship.
GIVING ROSES MEANS LOVE
Roses are always a good gift as per the Chinese proverb: “A bit of fragrance always clings to the hand that gives the rose”.
I’ve always loved giving roses – in fact a few years ago I adopted the name Rose into my name to signify beauty, femininity and love. I wore a rose on my lapel and became known as the “rose lady” because I gave roses to my friends whenever I could. Often just a beautiful single rose I picked fresh from the garden would light up their day.
So start your 29-days gift giving today! You will be thrilled and amazed as I am by the joy and amazing miracles – big and small – that happen when you do.
